No one ever sign up to be Physicals, emotional or verbal abuse in a relationship.
when a relationship starts its fun and joyful time because people date others to find their life partner.
I made this photo because I had seen a post on facebook from a young girl who
stood up to her abuser who was cheated on her, Lying to her.
He stood there and played with her Emotions and her trust. Meanwhile She just wanted
to find someone to love her.
but every lie, secret, and dark cloud hung over her head,
She wanted to believe all the sorry and the I love you.
But She was smart she did her homework, He didn’t just do this
to her. where were more girls to his past that were speaking up about the abuse.
If you are getting abuse talk about it… Seek help from 911 or anyone that will listen.
It’s ok to be scared we are human.
I will say this I have been in a abuse of relationship in Real-Life and on Secondlife.
when someone is broken and falling part it can take time to rebuild someone trust and loyalty.
This can take weeks, months and even years to heal and sometimes the damage is so bad people can get a mental illnesses
of anxiety or depression or PTSD.
If you are in a abuse of relationship or have been in one and need someone to talk too my mail Box is always open and I do check it everyday.
Here is a listen of things I have been threw
start with the Physical Abuse
– Shoved
– Hit
– Stalked for 15 years
– Grabbed
– Sexual Abuse
Next with the Emotional Abuse
– Blaming
– Not accepting responsibility for ones own actions
– Playing mind games
– Using the guilt trip
– Demanding
– Constant interrogations
– Controlling partner’s activities
– Jealousy (they could be jealous but I couldn’t)
– Isolation from family and friends (I Lost both my amazing crazy parents and one of my sisters)
– Insulting my family
and last with Verbal Abuse
– Threatening to harm themselves
– Calling over and over
– Constant accusation of cheating (I have never cheated on anyone RL or SL)
– Yell At
– Name Calling
– Silent treatment
– Twisting people words
– LYING
– Gas lighting
From Ąlαnα ß-ᴡ-ß-Ƙιуσяι
Alec Benjamin – Must Have Been The Wind
www.youtube.com/watch?v=emgDoBuFcMw
I heard glass shatter on the wall in the apartment above mine
At first I thought that I was dreamin’
But then I heard the voice of a girl
And it sounded like she’d been cryin’
Now I’m too worried to be sleepin’
So I took the elevator to the second floor
Walked down the hall and then I knocked upon her door
She opened up and I asked about the things I’ve been hearing
She said, "I think your ears are playing tricks on you"
Sweater zipped up to her chin
"Thanks for caring, sir, that’s nice of you
But I have to go back in
Wish I could tell you about the noise
But I didn’t hear a thing"
She said, "It must have been the wind, must have been the wind
Must have been the wind, it must have been the wind"
She said, "It must have been the wind, must have been the wind
Must have been the wind, it must have been the wind"
So I was layin’ on the floor of my room
Cold concrete on my back
No, I just couldn’t shake the feeling
I didn’t want to intrude because I knew that I didn’t have all the facts
But I couldn’t bear the thought of leavin’ her
So I took the elevator to the second floor
Walked down the hall and then I knocked upon her door
She opened up and I asked about the things I’ve been hearing
She said, "I think your ears are playing tricks on you"
Sweater zipped up to her chin
"Thanks for caring, sir, that’s nice of you
But I have to go back in
Wish I could tell you about the noise
But I didn’t hear a thing"
She said, "It must have been the wind, must have been the wind
Must have been the wind, it must have been the wind"
She said, "It must have been the wind, must have been the wind
Must have been the wind, it must have been the wind"
Aim my boom box at the roof, I’m playing, "Lean on me"
Just so that she knows that she can lean on me
And when she hears the words, I hope she knows she’ll be okay
Aim my boom box at the roof, I’m playing, "Lean on me"
Just so that she knows that she can lean on me
And when she hears the words, I know exactly what I’ll say
"Promise I’m not playing tricks on you
You’re always welcome to come in
You could stay here for an hour or two
If you ever need a friend"
"We can talk about the noise, when you’re ready, but till then"
I say, "It must have been the wind, must have been the wind
Must have been the wind, it must have been the wind"
I say, "It must have been the wind, must have been the wind
Must have been the wind, it must have been the wind
Posted by Alana Ludlow on 2021-08-07 22:14:15
Tagged: , POWERFUL , MESSAGE , STORY , STORIE , ABUSE , MARKS , SCARS , PAIN , HEARTBREAK , REBUILD , CHEATING , LYING , HITTING , STALKING , GASLIGHTING , Physicals , Emotional , Verbal , anxiety , Depression , PSTD , Shoved , Hit , Grabbed , Sexual , Blaming , Mind , Games , Guit , trip , Demanding , controlling , jealousy , Isolation , Insulting , yelling , name , calling , threatening , accusation
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